Motorola

Just got a PEBL, after having used Nokia phones forever. Curiously, if the included "ear bud" headset (ie non-bluetooth) is plugged into the PEBL, the phone doesn't ring; instead you just hear a couple of sounds through the headset. This means that while driving, for example, one has to either (a) have the headset in one's ear in order to hear a call coming in, or (b) leave the headset unplugged in order to hear a call ring the handset, and re-plug the headset each time. Is there no way to be able to leave the headset plugged into the phone, not have the silly ear bud thing in my ear all the time, AND hear the phone ring??? Please help! BTW, this was not an issue on my Nokias; incoming calls triggered both the phone ringer and sounds on...
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