Motorola Q9m / Q9c

I have the Q9C and im using a bluetooth with it. On my old Q9 it had a headset profile that atomattically switched on when the bluetooth connected and this new one doesnt seem to.. nor will it let me build a new profile for that. Does anyone know if there is a way to do that or to make it so while using a bluetooth text messages alet in your ear and not on the phone.. right now its doing it on both the phone and the bluetooth.

can anyone help?
thanks
Nicole