LG V VX-9800

Yes, I KNOW several people have asked the same things but im young and new to this stuff so someone PLEASE help me! I Have a 9800 and im trying to get my videos and music from my pc to my phone. Ive read a ton of posts and ive downlaoded bitpim and other programs, aswell as have a 1gp card and the music kit to hook to PC. I cant get bitpim to recognize my phone. I'm going away soon and before I leave i would LOVE to have some personal stuff on my phone. My email address is Machinehead31@comcast.net, can someone please be kind enough to email me step by step what I need to do? It would be GREATLY appreciated! Thanks in advance!