Nokia 6255i / 6256i

You seem to know alot about how to make this stuff work. I have a 2636i, and it drives me crazy that the picture Id doesn't work to the point I won't use the phone. (crazy I know) I have a cable for the phone, and I searched here and howardsforum for Diego, but I can't find it anywhere to download it. Do you know where I can get it, or what its under on freedownloads.com? I would really appreciate any help. Everyone talks about it, but no one will share where to get it! Why is that? Thanx in advance for the help
lin